The cycle of the love affair with a married man almost always ends in broken hearts, hurt, and wasted time.
Sure you have those once in a million times where the man actually leaves his wife for another, but for the most part, it is a script for adultery disaster.
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Gonzaga is the senior director of research and development at e Harmony.com, one of many dating websites that have sprouted online over the last decade.
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His book, "Dating the Second Time Around: Finding Love That Lasts," is packed with practical advice for people eager to give dating another shot.
The following is an edited version of our interview: CNN: How do you define second-time love in your book?